Ok my good friend texted me today and told me her sister’s husband told her he wants a divorce today. She said they had sex, and he basically rolled over and said, “I want a divorce.”  How do you do this to someone? I mean someone you have been with and have kids with and just like that you want to split… I know I don’t know the whole situation, but no one wants to work on things anymore. It’s easier to jump ship, for some. Then when kids are involved it’s soo complicated. How can some men be so evil? I mean they think leaving is going to give them this great bachelor life? News flash it’s not when you have kids.

My husband’s motto is “cheaper to keep her.” And I laugh but honestly it’s true..  we have 4 kids and he makes more in our house. I mean I have seen some of his fellow work friends lose it all. I mean to the point they can’t afford to live on their own, but I guess a good lawyer can do that for you.

So, on the topic of marriage, I know it can get boring at times. Especially if you are 20 plus years in. How do you avoid boredom? How do you keep it spicy and fun? I’m not talking just in the bedroom but in daily life? How do you not start to become annoyed and tired of the same person or position 😉 every day?

I have recently started hormone replacement therapy, which I may have talked about previously.  So, I started with topical creams and either my body metabolizes quickly or it just wasn’t enough.  So, we started oral progesterone and injectable testosterone. Well let me just say I’m like a horny rabbit. My husband is thrilled and I can’t say I don’t like it either.  My sex drive is thru the roof and I am willing to try new things. Great! However I am also finding myself wondering .. often thinking what would it be like to be with someone else? A different man, women, or three some? What the hell am I thinking?!??? Is this normal? I would never cheat on my husband; it was one rule when we started dating. I will never cheat, if u r in the position and going to try something new just fucking call or even text and say it’s over.. I’ve been cheated on and it sucks!

So, is this the norm or a side effect of the meds? I know increased sex drive is but the fantasy part of it, is that? I am going to keep it between me and my husband and maybe get a little freaky, but I feel odd just thinking some thoughts.

Let me know if you have been on hormone replacement therapy and had some of these changes? How did you curb them or did you act on them? With your husband? Without?